Spotlights manual load in V4

[Tim Smith]

In V3 I had a box come up when opening the sim asking whether to enable spotlights due to a conflict with some other addons. I would like to do the same in V4 but not entirely sure how. 

 

<SimBase.Document Type="AddOnXml" version="4,0" id="add-on">
  <AddOn.Name>Flight Sim Labs Spotlights</AddOn.Name>
  <AddOn.Description>FSLabs Spotlights. Publisher: Flight Sim Labs, Ltd.</AddOn.Description>
  <!-->DLL Components</-->
  <AddOn.Component>
    <Name>FSLabs Spotlights Module</Name>
    <Category>DLL</Category>
    <Path>DLLs\FSLSpotlights_P3D_x64.dll</Path>
    <DLLType>PDK</DLLType>
  </AddOn.Component>
  <!-->Effects</-->
  <AddOn.Component>
    <Category>Effects</Category>
    <Path>Effects</Path>
  </AddOn.Component>
</SimBase.Document>
 

 

That's the XML file for spotlights, however I don't see a tag for automatic or manual load.